Bananas … they hang in a tree in a bunch—connected—a very specific grouping, yes, like grapes on a vine or other clusters.  Are they separate from other groupings?  Yes and no, for all share the same tree or vine, the same roots.  The same is true with you.  You gather in groups and tend to build your identity and thus specialness from these clusters, but see past the bunch of you.  This whole fruit salad you call humanity shares the same Source.  We look forward to the day you all see this.