It’s not about you. 
This is a phrase that bears repeating again and again.  Each is here for their own learning, so in a
sense, the lesson that another’s concerns do not relate specifically to you is
for you, but their angst, their discomfort, their behavior has nothing to do
with you and everything to do with their own issues, their own growth.

It is one’s discomfort, insecurities, and fears
which lead them to think that another’s anger, silence, or other less than
loving behavior is about anyone other than the one experiencing those states of
consciousness.  Life is challenging
enough in human form without worrying what others are thinking.  Free yourself.  Relax and do the best you can at simply being
the presence of Love, and peace will be your experience.