Is there something in another that pushes your buttons?  Is it a trigger that causes the same emotional reaction each time?  It is not their doing.  It is quite likely that other’s behavior would change quite a bit if you were to stop reacting to it.  That one and their behavior are in your life to give you an opportunity to choose a neutral or loving reaction each time the trigger is tripped.  Are you ready to practice?  They will give you many opportunities to do so, until you habitually react with love, and then you may notice it is no longer a challenge.   Try it, why don’t you?