What if you cannot have it your way?  Because there is a “your way” means there are choices.  The greatest choice you can make is the choice to pause and see all of the choices rather than sticking to what you perceive is the only choice, the “my way.”  In that pause, there in that moment of simply being, you find peace.  There, in that moment you find perspective.  You may think that life would be wonderful if everything always occurred according to “your way,” but that is not the way of this physical world.  Learn to be flexible, and the way will be far more easy.