When one you love has not spoken to you for some time, be it through illness or willfulness, speak to their soul.  Do so from the perspective of your soul.  You are already in communication in this way at all times, for you have chosen this dance of being human together.  Acknowledge the love and connection you share.  Send that love to the human aspect as well.  Be not silent in the heart and know that at the level of the soul all is well.  Love with all your heart and soul those who are hurting, and if this includes yourself, heal yourself with forgiveness. 

You are so very loved.