You see a friend or family member you have not seen in a
long time and you both immediately revert to your old programming.  Are you the same person you were when you
last shared the same space?  No, you have
grown and so has the other, but do you see how the subconscious mind controls
you?  It immediately puts on the
recording that matches the image before you. 
You are not an automaton.  You are
a conscious being.  More important, you
are a spirit—loving energy that has evolved beyond your old programming.  Keep this in mind as you forge new and
improved relationships based on the new and improved you.