Do you feel like an outsider at times?  Everyone else is doing one thing, thinking one way and you are different?  Outside and inside are two sides of one coin.  See with the eyes of wholeness.  Outside, inside.  Together they make up wholeness.  You cannot have the inside without the outside and vice Versa.  Before you label what is going on here in each situation as bad or good, aim to see the whole picture.  How does that change things for you? 

You are so very loved.

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