And so you have had an argument with one you
love. Angry words were shared. You have turned your back, and now your teeth
are gritting, your jaw clenched. If this
is how your physical body reacts, what of the heart? In a metaphysical way it is clenched as well. Oh, so unhealthy on multiple levels. You have dug in now with ego intent on
holding its position at all costs. And
what is the cost? The love is not
flowing freely. This is a most unnatural
state, most unhealthy, unbalanced, and uncomfortable.
You can blame the other all you like. Ego likes that. Or you can ask yourself, “What do I have to
learn from this? How can I get the love
flowing again?” The answer to the latter
is always the same: by transcending the “me
vs. you” mentality and seeing from the single “I” of Spirit that all that
matters is love. We repeat: All that matters is love.
Right or wrong, blame, and judgment are irrelevant
at the level of Oneness. Here or there,
there is only one answer. You find peace
through Love.