Be aware of energy fields and how they interact.  What you consider to be “you” is one energy field comprised of many, many fields within the greater you, as each cell, each organ, each system, for example is its own field.  Note that we have said “is” a field and not “has” a field.
As you interact with other people, who are fields, you can easily take on their characteristics, their mannerisms, and even their thoughts.  Whose thoughts are they, anyway?  Ultimately, there is one Field of Being, and you and all of your fields and all that is are subsets of This.  If you wonder why you behave as you do, why you think as you do, why you feel as you do, begin to consider fields and their interactions.  You will find it most enlightening.

You are so very loved.  It can be no other way.

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