No one can do the heavy
lifting for you.  Being human is
easy.  You simply follow the crowd.  Being an awakened human may be a bit more challenging.  Once awakened, it is no longer so easy to
follow along and to think as those who remain ignorant to a greater reality do.  You now face choices.  You have always faced choices, but now you
are much more aware of the consequences in the greater scheme of things.  To forgive or not to forgive?  In the past it was easy to hang onto your
anger.  To judge or not to judge?  Do you see? 
Once you open the eyes of the soul your choices from moment to moment
become far more important.  The lifting
is easy for the soul; not always so easy for the human, which is why you must
do the heavy lifting yourself.