Examine your stories.  Do they change?  If not, you may be stuck in limitation.  Life is about change, flow, growth.  You may have believed and shared one thing at one time, and now what?  Have new experiences changed the way you understand life?  Change the story.  Flow with life as it unfolds.  It is all about experience, sharing, connection.  If you stick to your tight story lines, you miss out on the wonder.  No wonder this happened!  No wonder that occurred!  These realizations happen when you step outside the box and flow.