The one true Mother is
the One who birthed the spirit.  Any
other you identified as “mother” who failed to live up to an ideal was chosen as
a teacher.  The one true Father is the
one who birthed you as spirit.  Any other
you labeled as “father” is one you chose to serve as a teacher, and
vice-versa.  If you are disappointed in
the ones you identified as mother or father, it is because you set an ideal
based upon a belief system you learned.  Were
you adopted several times you would shift allegiances and perhaps hold onto the
belief that the biological mother and father held the solution to your struggles.  This is a falsehood.

Your human parents are
fellow sojourners, here to learn.  Have
compassion for them as well as yourself. 
There is One True Source of Love and Comfort and it lies within
you.  You are an aspect of that eternal
Source of Love.  Give up the belief in a
mother and father who are separate from you. 
Send love and gratitude to the very human beings you formerly believed
were your source for the lessons you shared together.  Now, allow yourself to feel the loving arms
of the true Father/Mother as you receive from within what you have been searching
for outside of yourself your whole human life.