People make mistakes.  Can you forgive them?  People say and do things that do not agree
with you.  Can you forgive that?  If you cannot, you may be spending much of
your time alone, for no two humans think and act exactly alike.  This is the reason for relationships, to
provide you practice in many aspects of being human:  accepting and allowing, surrender,
forgiveness, and love.  Does this mean you
condone non-loving behavior?  Not at all,
but you see the human side in relation to the purely loving soul within and you
understand there is growth to be had, perhaps within you as well.  Seeing this, you then make a more loving
decision as to how to respond.  It is all
a dance:  back and forth, yin and yang
seeking harmony.