When those around you change beyond recognition, you change as well. It is human to want everything to stay the same, but every cell in your body is constantly changing, as is every vibration of your spirit body. Change propels the soul ever onward in its quest for growth. Do not fight it. Adapt. Do you not see the most beautiful evidence of adaptation in nature? Look at the insects that change their shell to match the external environment and blend in. This is for their survival.
To better survive this earthly experience, accept change as a constant. Allow your “skin” to change colors as things around you change and ever easier will be the journey.