When you do not know any other way to see a situation and
that situation is taking you farther from a place of peace, shift your
consciousness.  You do this with your
imagination.  Become someone else and see
yourself and your situation with their eyes. 
Yes, a simple change in perspective can work miracles. 

Now, who might be able to give you better guidance?  Perhaps a wise parent, perhaps a loving
teacher.  Perhaps the Master, perhaps
God.  See your situation through their
eyes.  In your imagination, become that
one you choose.  What would they say to
you in your situation?  Become them fully
and write the full script.  You may be
surprised at the answer.  It may be just
what you need to hear.  How is this
possible?  For you have stepped into an
expanded state of consciousness where all Consciousness is One.