Not my will, but Thy will be done.  In this way, your life will include much more joy, far more peace, and what you might call magic.  There is nothing magical about it, save the fact that miracles happen when you get ego out of the way.  You may think you know what is best, but to be sure, check in at the heart.  Is there a knowing there?  That is far better than thinking.  Continue following the promptings of the heart and you have made a good start.