You will go through cycles and stages.  And just when you thought a thing was healed in you or another, up it rises again like a weed that won’t go away.  Do not pull it out at ground level.  Go down to the very roots.  Weeds that were not fully dealt with will do this, you know — keep coming back up.  What is the root cause of all human suffering?  The belief that you can be separate from Love.  You are that which you seek.  You arise from the very Source of all Love.  Do not be fooled by appearances, feelings, and beliefs.  Go to the very center of you, and there you will find the root cause of the soul.  Everything else is projection.  You are so very loved.  As you truly come to know this, the cycles of suffering will end.