As long as you have certain lessons in learning to respond with love and peace yet to learn, the soul will continue providing opportunities to the human expression known as you (state your name).  Finally, one moment you will respond to the repeated program with a higher vibration and the soul will no longer need to continue running that scenario.  “We can check that one off the list,” your soul says to the soul of the other human who until that moment so perfectly pushed your buttons.  Do you get it now?  Solve the challenge at your human level and the higher levels no longer need to keep running that program.  As you learn to respond with the highest possible vibration to each challenge in each now-moment, the coherence between human and soul and all humans around you increases ever more.