The question is so often asked, “Do we reincarnate?”  And the answer is a qualified yes.  Aspects do, yes.  The real you has no form.  The human thinks in terms of identifiable,
separate forms.  That form-like aspect of
you does not come back again so that you would recognize it walking down the
street.  Yes, we see you smiling at this
silly concept.  And so we smile as well
when you worry that one you love who has passed will reincarnate before you get
to join them and so will be lost to you. 
You need not worry (about anything, ever).  Consciousness is an energy form, and it is
true what you are taught:  Energy cannot
be created or destroyed, merely transformed.

You and the one who has died are Aspects of Consciousness … Aspects of Greater Consciousness.  When in human form, the Aspect of
Consciousness takes on certain characteristics which result in the soul’s
growth.  This is the point of human
existence:  adding to the Whole.  After you have added what we hope is more
Love to the Whole, a bit of the Whole of You may decide to go back and take on
form yet again for yet more growth. 
Those aspects that were you do not completely gel into one form and
become lost to those who once loved you.  No,
the Aspect of Consciousness that was you will always, yes, always remain
recognizable as the Aspect of Consciousness known as you, even when bits (if
formless energy can be referred to as bits) of the Greater You are now off
having another experience as a human for the growth of it.

Do you see? 
Fear not.  There is only Love,
only Being, only One Mind, and billions of aspects of That.  Love never dies.  It merely goes round and round, growing ever
brighter, ever stronger as you, and you, and you, and you.