Why do you disdain this or that?  These are judgments.  The human nature judges, makes comparisons, and deems something good or bad based on history.  What if you knew nothing?  What if you gave nothing meaning?  What if you simply observed?  There is an innate awareness if a thing is aligned with love or not. If something is out of alignment, heed that awareness and be aware of the human propensity to judge.  Without judgments, you can still take appropriate action, yet remain aligned with compassion, kindness and love, the True Nature of the soul.  Observing vs. judging.  Feel the difference.  You are so very loved.