Things are not always what they seem.  Do you not hide things going on in your life from others out of a sense of privacy?  Are there not challenges going on in your life that you do not wish to share with others?  And when these challenges bubble up and can no longer be contained, do you not at times lash out or behave in less than optimal ways?  How does that appear to others?  If they do not know of your challenges, they will make judgments based upon surface appearances and label you and your behaviors.  Most humans do this.  And so, the next time you are about to make a judgment or place a label, perhaps you will remember, you are all in the same boat.  Your vessel’s name is Humanity.  You sink or swim together, but know that as you navigate this challenging course you have undertaken you are so very loved.  It can be no other way.