You can’t have them back … but you can have them forward.  You grieve because you feel you’ve lost them.  This word is only partly true.  The physical interaction and conversations in person may be gone, but these conversations can continue.  Do not cease talking and sharing because you can no longer see them.  If you could you would realize that they are here listening and trying to get through to you more often than you know, most especially when you need them most.  Mourn if you must, and you MUST to clear out the patterns of physicality, but know that you move forward together in a w-holy new way, bonded forever by love, and growing in awareness that death can never part you.   

You are so very loved.