Why do you try to fit yourself into a mold?   There is no one else like you in human form.  As spirit, you are all the same:  love … the light.  But you are here for spirit to play and dance and experience.  Why would you want to be uniform?  Yes, uniforms are necessary as one part of the human experience, but what happens when you take off the uniform?  No matter what human suit you wear, you are unique.  Express your colors.  Show them proudly, but it need not be loudly.  Just shine.  Do so from the heart, and enjoy the experience of being you while you have it.