What happens when you hear a phrase that is opposite to your current belief system? Is there not an instantaneous pushing back? A resistance? This is programmed behavior. The body and brain are designed to protect the known, even if what you believe is not the only way to see things. You exist in a world of relativity arising from one great Truth: I AM. All else is story. When you sense resistance to an utterance or an action, observe it from a higher perspective than the brain and body. Can you allow it to be? If not, at the very least, bring love into the equation and see how that rests against the deeper Truth that the soul knows quite well. You are so very loved.